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And you are rehashing all the things you did or said trying to understand what's wrong with him! Or perhaps you start trying harder.

See, what works for women doesn't work for men! And you probably come to the conclusion that you should write a letter to him and express your feelings.

Or, some women have sent text messages expressing their feelings.

He is still distant and perhaps even irritated with you .

And you write all those things that bother you down and send him an e-mail or a letter.

He suddenly remembers that he has plans to spend a weekend doing something else, so that he can't see you.

He doesn't call you and doesn't answer the phone when you call.

Some of the wrong places that give you the wrong answers are: women's magazines, advice of your girlfriends who suggest that you do what they would want to be done by their men for them.

When he seems distant and inattentive, you start giving more and more.

Or perhaps he says he'll call you back and you are left in the lurch waiting for a phone call that never happens .

You try to talk to him, but anything you ask or say is perceived as stupid, and you start feeling that you probably should not have said anything at all.

Some women tried to get a guy on the phone and ask him right there a....

He starts spending less and less time with you.

And after a while he stops calling you completely and doesn't answer your phone calls.

The problem is that no matter how hard you try, it seems to make the situation even worse.

He calls you less or completely stops initiating phone calls.

And then you go home and he disappears on you .

Perhaps he wants to stay home on a weekend and you offer to bring lunch or dinner over.

What happens next is that you start looking for answers in all the wrong places.

You cook a gourmet dinner, bring it over, but he still seems distant and you end up having sex after he eats that dinner you cooked, but you see no enlightenment in him.

Next thing you know, he suddenly pulls away .